{"id":2239,"date":"2018-04-01T21:01:27","date_gmt":"2018-04-02T05:01:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/realitynext.net\/?p=2239"},"modified":"2021-12-21T20:04:50","modified_gmt":"2021-12-22T03:04:50","slug":"why-stories-matter-and-they-matter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/realitynext.net\/why-stories-matter-and-they-matter\/","title":{"rendered":"Why stories matter. And they matter."},"content":{"rendered":"

It happens to everyone at some point in their life. You lay in bed at night, knowing in your gut that you\u2019re in the wrong place. Maybe it\u2019s the wrong career, the wrong relationship, the wrong city. Maybe it\u2019s the noise of politics, social media, or the never-ending news cycle that doesn\u2019t feel right. Whatever it is, you know deep down that you\u2019re living somebody else\u2019s story. But it doesn\u2019t have to be that way.<\/p>\n

\u201cStudents who learn through telling and reflectively processing their stories develop skills that enable them to link subjective and objective perspectives, capture the complexity of experience and bring about thoughtful change to self and practice,\u201d says Maxine Alterio<\/a>, an educator and researcher at Otago Polytechnic in New Zealand, who notes that storytelling enhances learning. \u201cWhen storytelling is used as a robust mode of inquiry, student learning is enhanced in multiple ways.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHumans think in stories, and we try to make sense of the world by telling stories,\u201d says Yuval Noah Harari<\/a>, a professor at the Hebrew University in Jerusalem and author of bestsellers Sapiens<\/em> and Homo Deus<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Stories, he wrote in Sapiens<\/em>, are what allowed homo sapiens to dominate the hardier and apparently smarter Neanderthal species: \u201cCooperation between very large numbers of strangers\u201d leads to \u201cthe ability to transmit information about things that do not really exist, such as tribal spirits, nations, limited liability companies and human rights.\u201d<\/p>\n

What Harari talks about is communal. But stories, we all know, are just as important at the personal level.<\/p>\n

\u201cEverything that I know, share and teach is from all that I make, all that I do,\u201d writes Hanson Hosein<\/a>, program chair of the Communication Leadership<\/a> graduate program at the University of Washington, and a mentor to me. \u201cSo to remain relevant and credible, I must continue to make. And do.\u201d<\/p>\n

\"\"Which brings me to why we\u2019re here at RealityNext. Our purpose is all about the story: the story that ties us to a learning subject, sure. But more so we\u2019re about the story of how we work together toward a common goal, the story of how we find our passions. When we can bring a group of young learners together in a room and allow them to test different roles as creators and builders, that\u2019s how they understand their life\u2019s direction.<\/p>\n

Paul J. Zak<\/a>, an economics and psychology professor at Claremont Graduate University and founding director of the Center for Neuroeconomics Studies, found that the brain releases a chemical called oxytocin \u201cwhen we are trusted or shown a kindness, and it motivates cooperation with others. It does this by enhancing the sense of empathy, our ability to experience others\u2019 emotions.\u201d According to Zak, with further testing his team found that \u201ccharacter-driven stories do consistently cause oxytocin synthesis<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n

So why is storytelling as an idea important? For one, a story puts facts into context, allowing us to make sense of our lives and of those around us\u2014they allow us to engage with one another.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe can weave common myths such as the biblical creation story, the Dreamtime myths of Aboriginal Australians, and the nationalist myths of modern states,\u201d Harari wrote. \u201cSuch myths give Sapiens the unprecedented ability to cooperate flexibly in large numbers. Ants and bees can also work together in huge numbers, but they do so in a very rigid manner and only with close relatives.\u201d<\/p>\n

A story of course needs a beginning, a middle, and an end. But it also needs a conflict, and that conflict needs a resolution. For instance, did you hear about that time I went to the football game and sat on the 50-yard line? You\u2019re right. Boring. Who cares? But did you hear about the time I went to the football game? We almost didn\u2019t make it when I realized after we\u2019d paid 20 bucks for parking that we\u2019d forgotten the tickets. So I rushed back home, found the tickets, and rushed back. I convinced the parking lot guy to let me back into my spot and we found our seats right at kickoff. And guess where they were? Right at the 50-yard line!<\/p>\n

Interesting, right? Now do you care?<\/p>\n

If we can help people see the benefits of learning through the art of making stories, they can shift the rote gathering of facts into something more personal: they can see their place in the world. That will spur action on climate change, or help people understand how a war hundreds of years ago has parallels to today. Our students have proven this in our workshops<\/a> and brought home the importance of the subject in a very powerful way.<\/p>\n

Storytelling is fun. It gets the point across. It tells you who you are and your place in the world. And, with a little luck, we all live happily ever after.<\/p>\n

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